“But all men cheat”—this is a phrase I’ve heard so many times from women, of all age brackets, and it doesn’t sit well with me.
I believe this is a phrase created by women for women to justify why they are enduring relationships with a cheating boyfriend/husband.
Do all men cheat? All of them?
The fact of the matter is that a man will never cheat on the woman he cares about, and in this article, I’m going to give you the 7 reasons why.
Check them out below:
1. A good man respects the woman in his life
Cheating is disrespect to one’s partner. It involves lying and breaking of trust.
And a good man would not want to put his woman through that emotional torture.
2. A good man has a conscience
Any man that cheats will have to live double lives; for instance, he has to pretend and hide when he’s around his woman. That’s a whole lot of work that will definitely not end well.
3. A good man appreciates what he has
If a man appreciates his partner, then he would not be willing to take the risk of losing her.
Cheating puts the relationship with his woman in jeopardy.
4. A good man will never take the easy way out
Cheating is running away from your problems with your woman instead of dealing with them head-on.
However, breakup happens because not all relationships are meant to be forever. A good man would rather face the breakup than seek solace elsewhere.
5. A good man prefers to manage his sexual urges
Often times, there will always be a woman who is way more attractive and almost irresistible, a good man would know that it is a better option to resist the temptation, walk away and go home to the woman he loves and adores.
6. A good man respects himself
He builds standards for himself and would never go beneath them.
Instead, he would rather work hard to maintain the life he has built for himself and his partner.
In addition, he would uphold the promises of love and commitment he made to his partner.
7. A good man is too busy to cheat
Yes, because he’s too busy finding ways to know and love his woman more. Therefore, he’s not interested in increasing his body count or achieving conquests in women.
Earthquakes just happen. Tornadoes just happen. Your tongue does not just happen to fall into some other girl’s mouth! —Gemma Halliday
In conclusion, cheating is not sudden, it’s not a mistake. It’s a choice. In other words, it doesn’t happen at the snap of a finger. It requires a process. And the process gives countless opportunities for a good man to say “no” and walk away to the woman he’s truly committed to.