I know we say relationships can be difficult, and that’s true. But love is not meant to feel like hard labor; it should not drain the life out of everyone involved. If it’s doing that, something is really wrong. The reason I’m saying that is that many women say they want love. Yet, they keep …
I recently watched a certain church’s women’s program on YouTube. During the “Question and Answer” section, a woman asked why she was constantly attracting the wrong guys. Considering she is a Christian, she was asking why she kept attracting non-Christians. And even before one of the panelists answered, I said to myself, “You might be …
When people complain about others, and they seem to have a lot of that same experience with many people, it is almost always certain that they are the problem. So, many times, when someone says they have standards, but what others experience is constant resistance, it almost always means they are just being difficult. And …
Life is generally very challenging. As an adult, there’s just so much to do and so many hassles that you may face as you go about your daily life. So, in the midst of all the chaos, your relationship should feel like a place you return to for rest; it should be your haven from …
You might think being a difficult husband just means you frustrate your wife sometimes. But you see, when you are being a difficult husband, you are not just frustrating your wife, you are also destroying her. I know you may think it’s not that deep, so let me show you how being a difficult husband …
Marriage does not suddenly become difficult because one person woke up evil. Most times, the reason things become heavy is that some habits go unchecked, which results in resentment over time. And many men do not even realize how their behavior is affecting their home; sometimes, until it’s too late. So, if your wife has …
When you are in your teens or early twenties and casually dating, dating can be fun because you don’t expect so much anyway. But once you are at the age – whatever that age is for you – where you want to get serious, dating can feel like a full-time job with no benefits. At …
I don’t know anyone who gets into a relationship hoping their partner will be unfaithful. Even for those who have come to accept it, it’s not because they want it, but because they don’t want to be disappointed. So they feel it’s safer to just come to terms with it. At our core, we all …
I recently came across a tweet where a lady said that she broke up with her boyfriend, only for him to send a message the next day that he was seeing her that night. Basically, he planned a date, acting like nothing happened. Many people commented that the guy locked in because there is nothing …
Marriage is beautiful and rewarding, but it is also a lot of work. Usually, when two people love each other and have been together long enough, the next logical step is a ring. If they believe in marriage, that’s usually the progression. But one thing we must understand and accept is that love and readiness …