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11 Signs He Wants You To Leave Him Alone

11 Signs He Wants You To Leave Him Alone

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What are the signs he wants you to leave him alone?

Look, we’ve all been in that situation.

You’re dating the wrong guy or you’re with someone who just doesn’t treat you right.

Even when he’s not telling you directly, he is honestly giving you the signs he wants you to leave him alone.

Maybe the way he talks, his attitude, and how he acts towards you have changed dramatically.

While some of these signs can be accounted for by other things going on in a person’s life, if most or all of them are there, it is time for you to step back and ask yourself: does my boyfriend want me to leave him alone?

They say actions speak louder than words and they do.

In this article, I will share with you some of the signs that will help you understand whether your boyfriend wants you to leave him or not.

11 Signs He Wants You To Leave Him Alone

1. He Doesn’t Answer Or Return Your Calls Or Texts

This is one of the classic signs he wants you to leave him alone.

If someone is interested in you, they will make sure that they contact you as soon as they can.

But when your partner doesn’t even bother to get back to you, it means that he really isn’t interested in talking to or seeing you right now.

This could mean that he needs his space and doesn’t want to be bothered by anyone.

And unfortunately, this could also mean that he wants you to leave him alone.

2. He Stops Communicating

You notice that the conversations have become very short and infrequent and then stop altogether.

You are probably not even on his “favorites list” anymore.

If you never hear from him unless you reach out first, this is strongly suggestive of it.

It is one of the signs he wants you to leave him alone.

3. He Wants To Spend Less Time With You

If you notice your boyfriend has lost interest in spending time alone with you, it may mean he wants to break up with you without telling you directly.

He might even spend more time with his friends or at work than before.

Because if he’s no longer spending time with you, he’s spending more time with some other people.

The importance of quality time in a relationship cannot be overemphasized.

If he gives flimsy excuses for not spending time with you, he might want you to leave him alone.

4. He Tries To Avoid Talking About The Future

Your boyfriend might try to avoid discussing your future together if he wants to break up with you.

He would rather not talk about where your relationship is going because he doesn’t know how to tell you that he wants out of the relationship.

If your boyfriend has told you that he doesn’t want to get married or have kids, especially if he knows you want to get married and have kids, it can be a subtle way of telling you he’s no longer interested.

5. He Avoids Hanging Out With You

People don’t always say what they mean, and sometimes it’s because they want to avoid hurting your feelings.

When a man is tired of you, he will find plenty of reasons to avoid hanging out with you.

He finds any excuse not to hang out with you.

The more time you don’t spend together, the faster his feelings for you will fade away.

Men get bored easily, and if they feel like they need to be around you too often or if they feel like they can’t escape your presence, they’ll start feeling trapped in their relationship with you.

6. He Stops Telling You About His Day

You’re probably used to discussing every detail of your day with him and listening while he tells you all about his life.

Men who want to break up with their girlfriends stop talking about the things that are important to them because they think that spending time together is a waste of their time.

They might even try to make up some silly excuse like “I’m too tired” or “My day was boring”, even if it wasn’t true.

7. He Is Not Available

He doesn’t want to spend time with you and make plans for the future.

Even when he does spend time with you, he only wants to hang out at his house or yours.

If it works for you, fine.

But if it bothers you that he never goes out of his way to take you on a real date, take the hint and move on.

8. He Doesn’t Make An Effort

You can tell that he’s not interested when he doesn’t make an effort to see you or call you when he says he will.

It’s easy enough for him to come up with an excuse as to why something happened, but if it happens repeatedly, then he really isn’t sincere about spending time with you.

9. He Stops Sharing Things With You

When a man starts to pull away from a relationship, one of the first things that changes is how much he shares with you.

He’ll stop telling you about his day or what’s on his mind because, in his mind, it doesn’t matter anymore.

It’s one of the signs he wants you to leave him alone.

His days with you are numbered and he’s already mentally checked out.

10. He Starts Getting Defensive On Small Things

When a guy senses that there’s a chance he might lose something, it can put him on edge.

So, if he feels like you might leave him, he will start acting defensive and blaming others for things that are their fault.

He’ll make excuses for his bad mood and try to push the blame onto someone else.

11. He Gets Angry Easily

Signs He Wants You To Leave Him Alone























When your man is on the verge of breaking up, he may start getting angry at small things that normally wouldn’t bother him or would even be funny to him.

These sudden bursts of anger usually stem from feelings of guilt or apprehension about breaking up with you and taking responsibility for making that decision.

These emotions will turn into anger over small things because they are easier to handle than the bigger picture of breaking up with you.

What then do you do?

Ask yourself what you want and make a decision based on your answer.

Do you want to be with someone who doesn’t want you or do you want a relationship where you are treated with love and respect?

There you have it!

Signs He Wants You To Leave Him Alone

Sheena barber

Tuesday 9th of May 2023

Yes ok I have a wired question this guy I met through a local website well it was supposed to be fwb to start with and I started to pour slot of money into his wants and needs well in the past year and half we been supposed to be dating he has pack all of his stuff in the middle of the night and ran and moved out back home with his mom 7 or 8 times and every single time in like a few days he would pop back up to see what I could do for him and I kept taking I back but now since his mom has moved away I feel like I'm just getting used because he never ever wants to help me with cleaning up or anything else but just wants to nag at me and say what I should do or that he so tired but I'm working 247 while he here at home and he acts like sitting around give him the right to sleep and me stay up. But yet I'm ultimately in love with him and he keeps telling me that he loves me but he never ever shows me. Please help

Love Pavillion

Saturday 13th of May 2023

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Sunday 5th of February 2023

I am not married with this guy , we've dating for 17years now and we have 2 Handsome boys who are still young at age. Things beween me and my man started to change in 2020 whe he was employed permanetly.he started telling me lies abt things, he hide from me, he started to have secrets againts me. Then years goes by he chhanged totaly ,started to have an eye to other woman then by 2021 i've found out and he denied it but continued this thing, now comes 2022 i started seeing msgs through his WhatsApp then still i did comfonted him and he didnt even have the answer to come clean and ask for forgiveness then i did. Even though i forgive him i still have anger, hurt inside my heart, then we are still together alothough things are not the same, there's tention between us, he cant standspending time with me alone but when theres his friends he chatts with them laugh all loud, to us there's no Comminication as before , he stops Sending me Romantic messages, he stops passing by my house when he comes back earlly at work. He always get distructed when i am arround, always find something that will make him bussy when i am arround.My man he even stops expressing his feelingto me, talking abt us. When i try to talk to him abt the way his friends keep on coming by for a visit ,even though i say his sleeping they will insist as if i am not arround ,the only thing he will do he will listen at that moment and act as if i didnt talk to him. Please help i really need Advice because this is not normal at all.

Thank you.


Thursday 27th of April 2023

@Nox, leave he us no longer interested in you. It hurts but it is the truth. Don’t waste anymore time on him.