Some people may say the moment your husband cheats on you, the other woman already poses a threat to your marriage. And honestly, I see what they mean, because no matter how you look at it, that’s the husband bringing in another woman to the dynamic. That’s him sharing with another woman what should be … Read more
I used to believe that love is enough to keep a marriage going. The way I saw it, once a couple loves each other, they can overcome any obstacle. But the longer I observe relationships or marriages, the more I realize that love alone cannot carry a marriage through everything. Can you imagine dealing with … Read more
Many of us probably know one couple that we could have sworn would never get divorced, because of how much in love they were with each other. So when it happens, you’re left wondering what could have gone wrong. The truth is that it is not often because they didn’t love each other or that … Read more
I remember watching this video clip on Instagram where a lady and her husband were talking about how she’d feel if he said he was going on a boy’s night out with all the single men. The lady said she didn’t care, that he could go. Even the husband was shocked. He asked her, “With … Read more
Most good men do not wake up one morning and decide they are done with their marriage. I don’t think anybody does, to be honest. Things like that usually happen slowly. One day, a man might think he can cope with the resentment brewing due to his wife’s actions or inactions. The next time, he … Read more
Unfortunately, a lot of husbands carry and keep things they may not share with their wives. Not because they don’t trust them, but because they are not sure how to say them without sounding weak, needy, or misunderstood. As a woman, you might find this difficult to understand; you might wonder why they struggle to … Read more
Marriage is already tough enough on its own. You’ve got bills to pay, kids to nurture, and the stress of just navigating life with another human being. But sometimes, without even realizing it, we actually make marriage harder than it needs to be. I recall watching an interview with Nigerian actress Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, in … Read more
I’m a huge believer in the power of prayer. I really am. Because I’ve seen it change hearts, bring peace, and give us direction when we are totally lost. However, I also know that prayer is not a substitute for responsibility, effort, or honesty. That’s where many people, including many couples, miss it; they pray … Read more
I understand that some people may say a man who is good to his wife is doing the bare minimum and doesn’t need praise, as if he is doing something special. Even though I don’t agree, I understand where they are coming from. Here’s my own thoughts: if we say we can shame bad husbands, … Read more
You might think being a difficult husband just means you frustrate your wife sometimes. But you see, when you are being a difficult husband, you are not just frustrating your wife, you are also destroying her. I know you may think it’s not that deep, so let me show you how being a difficult husband … Read more