There’s nothing you can do to stop a man who has made up his mind about moving on with his life without you in it.
In the world of men, it is a known fact that they love idealistically, and this is very true, but when they also decide they are done, truly they are.
In fact, there might be someone else already in the picture before you get a hang of what is going on.
So, there are a few things to note when he has lost interest in you.
There’s always a behavioral pattern to watch for; it’s human nature to act a certain way when something happens.
I’ll summarize some of them so you know when to give up on that relationship and let that man go.
Although humans are dynamic in nature and often act differently, there are certain traits common to every gender, race, tribe, etc.
So, let’s check out some of those signs he is losing interest in you.
7 OBVIOUS SIGNS HE IS LOSING INTEREST IN YOU
1. HE NO LONGER COMMUNICATES WITH YOU LIKE HE USED TO
The first sign you’d easily notice when a man’s interest is lost will be his communication with you.
Yes! That’s what he’d start with.
He’ll no longer be there to chat with you or gist you on how his day went; he’ll become verbally withdrawn.
He won’t give a chance or opportunity to have him talk about anything that will go beyond the superficial.
This is a very common trait amongst men when they’ve lost interest.
It’ll start taking him days to reply to your texts and weeks to return your calls.
He’d avoid having any form of conversation with you, and that is how the relationship will die a natural death.
Where there’s no communication, there’ll be no joy, and where there’s no joy, I’m positive no one will like to stay there.
2. HE WILL START AVOIDING YOU LIKE A PLAGUE
This, right here, is a major sign that he has lost interest.
You’ll notice this very much because he will stop being there like he used to be there.
He might not start this at once, but gradually, he’d start avoiding you and anything related to you.
He’d begin to avoid your calls, your friends, family, etc.
Once you notice this, which is very easy to do, know within yourself that he’s not interested anymore.
The minute you notice, he starts postponing or waving off things that can easily be addressed and not giving you a specific time to talk about the issue or whatever it might be, and he never tries to talk about it; just know that he’s no longer interested.
3. HE’D STOP TALKING ABOUT THE FUTURE
Another sign to notice is his conscious effort not to talk about the future with you.
Though this can be very tricky, when you try to bring up any conversation about your future together, he’d stylishly avoid the topic.
Because men are visionary, they know who they want in their future.
Discussions that you both used to have in eagerness will gradually diminish to something you’d begin to struggle to have.
This is a sign that your man isn’t seeing you in his future.
I stand to be corrected, but I believe women control who they date and sleep with, while men are in control of who they marry, start a life with, and build their dreams with.
So when a man doesn’t see you in his future, he won’t talk about goals, aspirations, ambitions, etc.
Why? You ask because you’re not going to be a part of it.
4. HE’LL STOP CARING ABOUT YOUR WHEREABOUTS
Yes! He’ll stop asking you why you’re late, where you’re going, how long you spent at your friend’s or family’s place.
He won’t just care any more.
A man is naturally territorial, they’ll want to know who you’re with, where you are going, how long you stay out etc.
If he no longer gives a damn about any of this, something is wrong somewhere.
This is a lack of interest.
Whenever you notice a thing like this, there’s a possibility that he has lost interest in you.
Men are very easy and simple to understand.
Once he’s not getting what he should be getting, he’ll stop doing what he should be doing or, better yet, start finding a replacement for you.
5. HE’LL START SEEING SOMEONE ELSE
This is the highest level of his permanently losing interest in you due to his constant complaints about things he’d like you to change, but you refused.
Not all men sleep around because they like cheating on their partners, according to popular opinion.
Some lost interest as a result of frustrations from their partners.
If you find out you’re the reason he’s seeing someone else, that simply means he’s no longer interested and can’t be blamed, seriously.
When it gets to this stage, I’m not sure if he’ll come back to you anymore. Relationships aren’t made in Hollywood, so it’s not always happily ever after for everyone.
6. HE WILL START TO AVOID ANY FORM OF INTIMACY
As much as men are believed to sleep with anything in a skirt, it is also better to know that when they aren’t feeling you anymore, they refrain from any form of physical intimacy with whoever they aren’t happy being with.
He won’t want your touch like he used to, nor be touchy either.
Most men are known to be touchy with their partners, and when this doesn’t happen more often, and it isn’t work-related or something he’s dealing with, then that might be a sign.
7. HE’D STOP ASKING FOR YOUR OPINION
I don’t think there’s anyone in this world who’d ask the opinion of someone they’ve lost interest in.
Men really like asking their partner’s opinion, not all though, but it’s a norm.
When he stops asking you for your opinion and probably starts talking to other people on topics that aren’t work-related, then something is wrong somewhere.
Men are such big babies who’d like to share every bit of information with you.
They’d ask for your opinions, advice, what you’d do in certain situations, etc.
But when this stops, check your man again. Is he still very much interested in you?
If you are experiencing any of the signs mentioned above, your situation might be something you can change or not.
It all depends on how bad it is and the kind of person you are.
There isn’t anyone in all sincerity who’d stick with someone who isn’t giving positive energy, and for men, when emotional intelligence is absent and their love language isn’t communicated, they tend to leave.
Be that comfort and peace whenever he thinks of you to avoid losing a good person.
Being toxic has no romantic benefit.