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10 Signs You Will Never Find Love

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The fear of being alone is one of the biggest roadblocks for people when it comes to searching for a partner.

You might think that if you go out, you will eventually find love after all, it is just a matter of time.

But then again, it may take years before you meet someone who sparks your interest and makes you feel attracted.

Here are some signs that you will never find love without changing something in how you live your life.


10 Signs You Will Never Find Love

1. You are too busy trying to find the “perfect” partner.

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There is no such thing as a perfect partner.

The sooner you realize that, the better off you will be.

Sure, we all want someone who makes us feel like they were made for us and only us, but if you are constantly finding reasons why your current partner cannot possibly measure up to your standards of perfection, then you are going to miss out on some truly wonderful opportunities.

You think that once you find the “perfect partner,” your life will be complete and your problems will go away.

But the truth is that no one can provide all of the things you need or want, including a romantic partner.

You have to learn how to meet some of those needs yourself.

You have to realize that the perfect partner is someone who loves you, cares about you and wants the best for you.



2. You are too guarded and critical.

You tend to be overly critical of yourself and others.

You expect perfection from yourself, but you also expect it from your partner.

You may think that if only your partner could just do this one thing differently, then everything would be okay; but in reality, there is no such thing as a perfect partner.

You analyse and dissect every act and step they take without thinking of the fact that they might have acted with no ulterior motives.

Your analytical and critiquing mind just goes off without thinking of the plausible effect on the relationship.

Doing this will not make you see anyone as good enough for you and that way, you remain a single pringle.



3. You have an inflated ego.

I am not against you having confidence in yourself.

However, there’s a thin line between being confident and having an inflated ego.

Your ego is larger than life and you think every other person is beneath you.

You may also think that you’re better than others, which is why you don’t need anyone else around to make you happy.

The truth is that everyone needs someone in their lives who cares about them and loves them unconditionally.

Without this kind of support system, it’s hard for anyone to feel secure and happy.

If a man comes along who wants more than just sex from you, he’ll have to prove himself worthy of your love first.

You need to be loved by someone who sees through your phoney exterior and knows what’s really going on in your life.

If you don’t access things from the simplest point of view, you will never find love.



4. You always have an excuse not to date or put yourself out there.

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Do you say you don’t have time for a relationship?

You’re too busy with work, school or your friends?

You’re not ready to get serious yet, or maybe you just haven’t met the right man?

You’ve got a lot of excuses.

But the truth is that it’s easier to stay home and watch TV than go out and meet someone new, that’s why so many people do it.

The only way you’ll ever find love is by putting yourself out there and being openhearted.

If you want to find love, stop making excuses.

Go out and meet new people and not just on the Internet.

Don’t wait for them to come to you; go out and make your own opportunities.

If you’re too busy with work or school, then take some time off so that you can focus on meeting someone new.

It’s a lot easier for someone else to fall in love with you if they’re not the only one doing all the work.



5. You are too desperate to find love.

If you’re too desperate to find love, then it’s likely that your desperation will be obvious to the people around you.

They’ll see right through your efforts at being charming and friendly; they’ll see your desperation instead.

When people are desperate for something, they often come across as needy or clingy instead of cool and confident.

That’s not a good look on anyone.

If you’re too desperate to find love, then you’ll end up making bad decisions.

You’ll rush into relationships or make bad choices because you want someone else to make them for you.

Stop trying so hard.

Go out and have fun with your friends, enjoy your life and focus on your own happiness first and foremost.

Your desperation to find love will prevent you from being with the right person for you and you’d end up being loveless.



6. You crave only physical intimacy.

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You think that you have to have sex with someone in order to know if they are “the one.”

But, this isn’t true.

There are many ways to express your love for another person and having sex isn’t the only way.

You can talk to them, cuddle with them, hold hands…all of these things are ways that show your love for someone.

If you feel like the only way you can express yourself is through sex, then it might be time to take a step back and reflect on what’s really going on with you.

You may never get to find love if your desire lies in just physical intimacy.

Love goes beyond the physical.



7. You think love is for people who can’t take care of themselves.

Our society is full of messages that tell us that love is only for those who can’t take care of themselves.

This means that if you’re financially stable, emotionally healthy, and have a support system in place then you should be fine without love.

But this is a lie.

Love is a human need and it doesn’t matter whether you have your life figured out or not; everyone needs love.

The only difference between those who are happily single and those who aren’t is that the former knows how to take care of themselves while still maintaining an open heart.

You on the other hand who think like this will remain loveless especially if you seemingly have it all figured out.



8. You are comfortable being alone.

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When you have been single for so long and you finally resort to being comfortable as a loner, you’d find it difficult to get love.

You think that being single is the best as opposed to being with someone that cares about you.

But this isn’t true; everyone needs love and companionship.

A shoulder to lean on.

An ear that listens.

A heart that cares.

It doesn’t matter if you have your life figured out or not, everyone needs love.



9. You hang around with people who have a negative attitude about love.

You are constantly surrounded by people who don’t believe in love.

They don’t think that a relationship is possible for them and they live their lives like this.

This can have a negative impact on you because it makes you think that being alone is better than having someone in your life.

You need to surround yourself with people who believe in love.

This will help you see relationships as possible and not as something that only happens to other people.



10. You are unwilling to compromise.

As a person, you believe a relationship will handicap you.

As such, you have even made up your mind not to let it have any meaning to you before you even venture into it.

You are so bent on not losing any bit of yourself as you think it is all about giving up a bit of yourself.

However, compromise is not about losing something or a part of you.

It’s about finding the best solution for both people involved.


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If you have any of these qualities then you should probably rethink your priorities so that you can be happier in life and in love.

Knowing these things about yourself can help you start to change your life and find a partner that is right for you.