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How Do You Stay Friends With Someone You Love?

How Do You Stay Friends With Someone You Love?

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You met someone, and you couldn’t help but fall in love with them.

But life is not unfolding the way you had hoped.

You find yourself firmly planted in the friend zone, leaving you wondering how to maintain a friendship when your heart’s already leaped.

Staying friends with someone you love is one easy walk.

We get it.

We’ve been there, too, which is why we’ve put together this blog post to ensure your situation doesn’t turn into a Shakespearean tragedy.

Keep reading and follow the tips below to navigate this terrain with grace.

How Do You Stay Friends With Someone You Love?

1. Be honest

 How Do You Stay Friends With Someone You Love

Be real and upfront with your feelings.

This does not mean you should go all dramatic with a grand love confession.

What we’re saying is that you should talk about what’s going on in your heart but without the whole I’m-madly-in-love-with-you drama.

Just tell them how you feel about the friendship and the way your heart’s doing somersaults.

The way you would say it with your best friend.

Be honest, but don’t scare them off.

Speak your mind gently, keep things real, and let that honesty build a solid friendship foundation.

That way, whether love blooms or not, you’ll have something solid to stand on.



2. Accept the reality that you’re friends

 How Do You Stay Friends With Someone You Love

We know the friendzone isn’t exactly the place you dreamed of, but let’s not see it as a bad place.

It’s a hangout where you and your special someone can chill as pals.

The friend zone can be a sweet spot to grow a unique connection.

Instead of being sad about what you don’t have, enjoy the friendship for what it is.

Take the time to know each other, share stories, and create memories.

You might be surprised how deep and beautiful a friendship can be.

Just relax, go with the flow, and let things develop naturally.

Welcome the friendzone, and you might discover that it’s not such a bad place to be after all.



3. Allow some space

We all need some space, a breather.

So when you’re in the friend zone, and you are excited about the feeling, remember to give your special someone some room to breathe.

It’s not playing hard to get or anything fancy.

It’s just being respectful.

Resist the urge to smother them with attention or affection.

Let them have their own time to do their thing.

This will make your friendship grow organically, and they won’t feel overwhelmed.

A little space keeps things balanced and enjoyable.



4. Keep boundaries in check

 How Do You Stay Friends With Someone You Love

When you’re dealing with being friends with someone you’ve got the hots for, it can be like walking a tightrope.

You don’t want to tumble into the more-than-friends territory too soon.

What we mean here is to respect their boundaries and their feelings.

Sure, you might have those moments when you want to stare into their eyes forever, but don’t make it awkward.

No lingering gazes, no super-flirty texts at midnight, and definitely no getting jealous when they mention their crush.

Keep things on the friendship side of the fence.

If you start trying to cross over into romantic territory too soon, that friendship might tumble down.

So, stay on your side for now, and let the romance part come when the time is right.



5. Take care of yourself

 How Do You Stay Friends With Someone You Love

You need to focus on yourself.

While you’re being this fantastic friend to the person you’ve got the hots for, don’t forget about the most important character in your life, you.

Pursue your interests, meet new people, and explore your passions.


A happy and independent you is attractive.

When you’re doing your own thing and having a blast, you become even more attractive.

Also, it’s a great way to keep your own life interesting and fulfilling.

Don’t be a supporting character in someone else’s story.

Be the star of your own show, and keep your storyline intriguing.

That’s good for you and also appealing to the person you’re trying to stay friends with.



6. Keep supporting them

Be supportive.

If your special someone is interested in someone else, be their biggest cheerleader.

Offer advice when they need it and be a listening ear when they want to share their thoughts.

Show genuine interest in their happiness.

If your friend feels that they can talk to you about their romantic adventures without fear of judgment.

It’s you are the person they trust the most.

It’s important not to let jealousy or possessiveness creep in.

You’re in the friend zone for a reason.

Be cool, and be there for your friend in the best way you can.

You never can tell.

Your supportive nature might just make you even more appealing.


7. Don’t leave out the plan B

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Have a backup plan for a rainy day.

Keep your heart open to the possibility of meeting someone new who could become a romantic interest.

Try out new opportunities, meet other people, and be open to the idea that life might have something amazing waiting for you around the corner.

You never know—that person you come across in the park or coffee shop could be your perfect match. 

So, keep that hope alive, and don’t close yourself off from the possibility of love happening again. 

Don’t forget that you’re not defined by this one friendship, and there’s a world full of potential connections out there.


8. Don’t do special treatments

When you’re in the friend zone and trying to maintain a friendship with someone you love, be mindful not to start treating them differently from your other friends.

Special treatments can create confusion and awkwardness.

Avoid giving them preferential treatment or acting too attentive.

This includes things like showering them with extravagant gifts, bending over backward to please them, or always being at their beck and call.

Treating them as a special one can make them uncomfortable and might even harm your friendship.

Your goal is to have a genuine and balanced friendship.

Everyone should feel equal and valued in a friendship, so don’t single out this person for special treatment.


9. Don’t have expectations with the friendship

Don’t hold on to expectations, especially when you’re in the friend zone with someone you have deeper feelings for.

Expectations can set you up for disappointment and misunderstandings.

Don’t expect that your friend will eventually feel the same way about you romantically.

The friend zone is a complex place, and your friend’s feelings might not change.

Accept and respect their stance without pushing for more.

Also, don’t expect the friendship to follow a specific path or timeline.


On a final note, don’t forget that the friend zone isn’t the end of the world, not by a long shot.

Life doesn’t always hand us the love story we dream of, and that’s okay.

It’s important to accept that not everyone we deeply care about will return those romantic feelings.

If you find yourself in a one-sided love situation, turn that love into something powerful and be a supportive friend.

Keep things simple, let your connection flow naturally, and cherish the wonderful friendship you share.

If, by some twist of fate, they do develop romantic feelings for you, that’s fantastic.

But, if not, it’s okay too.

The friendship is a beautiful thing in itself.

And, if it becomes too hard to bear, remember that seeking closure is okay.

Sometimes, you just need to step back and move forward with your life.

Keep being an amazing, genuine person.

Life’s full of plots, and there’s so much more to discover.