I remember watching this video clip on Instagram where a lady and her husband were talking about how she’d feel if he said he was going on a boy’s night out with all the single men.  The lady said she didn’t care, that he could go.  Even the husband was shocked.  He asked her, “With …

Most good men do not wake up one morning and decide they are done with their marriage. I don’t think anybody does, to be honest.  Things like that usually happen slowly.  One day, a man might think he can cope with the resentment brewing due to his wife’s actions or inactions.  The next time, he …

I remember sitting with a guy at a conference, and every time he opened his mouth, I almost puked.  I knew him, but I didn’t know him enough to say something about it.  And even if I did know him that well, it would have been difficult to say anything about it. But to say …

I don’t know if there’s anyone, much less a woman, who wouldn’t want to be a happy wife when asked.  The reason people get married and are extremely happy on their wedding day is because they believe that happiness will continue throughout their lives.  Nobody would look forward to marriage if that isn’t the hope.  …

We live in a world that practically worships beauty. So, you may have heard all about pretty privilege and how it opens doors, softens people’s hearts, and gives you an unfair advantage.  And honestly, sometimes it does.  I mean, getting a free drink or a smile from a stranger is nice. And it doesn’t hurt …

I know we say relationships can be difficult, and that’s true.  But love is not meant to feel like hard labor; it should not drain the life out of everyone involved.  If it’s doing that, something is really wrong.  The reason I’m saying that is that many women say they want love.  Yet, they keep …

I recently watched a certain church’s women’s program on YouTube.  During the “Question and Answer” section, a woman asked why she was constantly attracting the wrong guys.  Considering she is a Christian, she was asking why she kept attracting non-Christians.  And even before one of the panelists answered, I said to myself, “You might be …

Unfortunately, a lot of husbands carry and keep things they may not share with their wives. Not because they don’t trust them, but because they are not sure how to say them without sounding weak, needy, or misunderstood.  As a woman, you might find this difficult to understand; you might wonder why they struggle to …

When people complain about others, and they seem to have a lot of that same experience with many people, it is almost always certain that they are the problem. So, many times, when someone says they have standards, but what others experience is constant resistance, it almost always means they are just being difficult.  And …

Marriage is already tough enough on its own.  You’ve got bills to pay, kids to nurture, and the stress of just navigating life with another human being.  But sometimes, without even realizing it, we actually make marriage harder than it needs to be.  I recall watching an interview with Nigerian actress Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, in …