I keep asking, who told men that they need to be tough to be men? Okay.  You need to be tough.  But who told you that toughness means that you cannot be vulnerable? Who told you that you cannot be a strong man and have someone hold you sometimes? This world has equated toughness with …

I am a sucker for good scents.  I’ve followed a stranger around in a mall just because they smelt good.  I’ll tell you a secret: to be considered good in my books, you need only have a good body fragrance.  You do not even need to be a good person (though you must be a …

There are so many bizarre ideas about relationships going around in the world.  A relationship that was once a beautiful and fulfilling affair is now one that is filled with all manner of toxicity and competition.  It’s now a concern of who does what and who doesn’t do what.  So, if you’re here because you …

I like how people who lack understanding come to posts like this to say absurd things like, “You don’t need to do anything extra to keep your man. Any man who will stay will do so without you doing anything.” I find it absurd because men are expected to do extra to keep their marriage …

We had spoken about ways to know that a man is attracted to you.  And I felt it was just necessary to know what men are attracted to.  It is after you have made sure that you possess these attractive traits before you go on to find out whether or not a man is attracted …

With the rate of heartbreak and toxicity in the romantic space, one would expect a decline in the rate of love and relationships. But just like the Bible says, love never fails.  People are still loving and being loved, getting into and building beautiful relationships with the one whom they love with the hope that …

If you are opportune to have access to the kind of things people endure because of love, you’ll be shocked. I said it was because of love, which is quite alright, but to be honest, many times, I ask myself if it is love that makes people stay in a toxic environment or if there’s …

Growing up, 7 Keys was the name of a medication used for treating skin diseases.  We all used it as children—smallpox, chicken pox, measles, and other skin diseases that plagued children.  Now we are looking at 7 keys for something that ‘plagues’ us as adults—a happy marriage.  If you follow a ‘seemingly’ happy couple on …

I love the Bible for so many reasons, and one of them is the real life lessons that are contained in it.  Like the lesson it teaches about the power of our words and of the tongue. At the introduction of that lesson, it says, “any man who is able to put his words in …

If you ask an average woman what she seeks in a man, she will likely say, “I want a man who can spoil me.” But if we ask how many women want to spoil their men, the number is usually a handful. Why? Do you think men do not like to be pampered and taken …