Unfortunately, a lot of husbands carry and keep things they may not share with their wives. Not because they don’t trust them, but because they are not sure how to say them without sounding weak, needy, or misunderstood.  As a woman, you might find this difficult to understand; you might wonder why they struggle to …

When people complain about others, and they seem to have a lot of that same experience with many people, it is almost always certain that they are the problem. So, many times, when someone says they have standards, but what others experience is constant resistance, it almost always means they are just being difficult.  And …

Marriage is already tough enough on its own.  You’ve got bills to pay, kids to nurture, and the stress of just navigating life with another human being.  But sometimes, without even realizing it, we actually make marriage harder than it needs to be.  I recall watching an interview with Nigerian actress Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, in …

I’m a huge believer in the power of prayer.  I really am.  Because I’ve seen it change hearts, bring peace, and give us direction when we are totally lost.  However, I also know that prayer is not a substitute for responsibility, effort, or honesty.  That’s where many people, including many couples, miss it; they pray …

Life is generally very challenging.  As an adult, there’s just so much to do and so many hassles that you may face as you go about your daily life.  So, in the midst of all the chaos, your relationship should feel like a place you return to for rest; it should be your haven from …

I remember a particular contestant from a reality show I followed some years ago.  This lady is one of those people who invoke strong emotions in you; you either love them hard or you dislike them strongly.  And the reason is that she was very stubborn and unbending.  Now, from how I described her, you …

I understand that some people may say a man who is good to his wife is doing the bare minimum and doesn’t need praise, as if he is doing something special.  Even though I don’t agree, I understand where they are coming from.  Here’s my own thoughts: if we say we can shame bad husbands, …

The truth is that many people do not walk into marriage blind.  The signs are usually there, but they often ignore them because sparks are flying and everything feels like a scene from a rom-com. When you’re feeling butterflies, it is easy to view things through rose-colored glasses and excuse them.  Because you want your own …

We all say we want to level up; we say we want success, peace of mind, and all that comes with being a high-value person in society.  But the truth is that nobody gets there by wishful thinking.  There are certain cultures we must embrace to get there, and some of those things can be …

You might think being a difficult husband just means you frustrate your wife sometimes.  But you see, when you are being a difficult husband, you are not just frustrating your wife, you are also destroying her.  I know you may think it’s not that deep, so let me show you how being a difficult husband …