Sometimes, your instincts pick up things that your heart has not fully processed yet. I can’t tell you the number of times I just knew something even though I didn’t have any proof or understand how I knew it. And the majority of the time, I was right. I say that to say, the fact … Read more
Some people may say the moment your husband cheats on you, the other woman already poses a threat to your marriage. And honestly, I see what they mean, because no matter how you look at it, that’s the husband bringing in another woman to the dynamic. That’s him sharing with another woman what should be … Read more
I used to believe that love is enough to keep a marriage going. The way I saw it, once a couple loves each other, they can overcome any obstacle. But the longer I observe relationships or marriages, the more I realize that love alone cannot carry a marriage through everything. Can you imagine dealing with … Read more
There’s this assumption people have about women that when something is wrong, you will know. She’s expected to cry or complain about it. But that’s not always how it works. Some women go quiet. And it is the kind of quiet where everything is happening inside, and nobody else can see it. They keep being … Read more
We often talk a lot about love when it comes to marriage, and as we should, because love matters a lot in marriage. But so does self-respect. Because when you respect yourself, there are certain things you simply cannot pretend not to see. There are things you don’t explain away or make excuses for. Apart … Read more
I remember this lady who came on the Ask Steve section of Steve Harvey’s show to talk about her man of 9 years, who doesn’t want a label, and she was asking what to do. I watched that clip in amazement because I was wondering how she managed to remain in a relationship for 9 … Read more
Many of us probably know one couple that we could have sworn would never get divorced, because of how much in love they were with each other. So when it happens, you’re left wondering what could have gone wrong. The truth is that it is not often because they didn’t love each other or that … Read more
When I was single, I met a guy many years ago that I really liked. We seemed to hit it off right from the start, and I was certain the relationship would make headway. Well, on this particular day, we went out, and I asked if the little girl in his profile picture was his … Read more
There is a kind of tiredness that sleep can fix. You are really just stressed because of the usual hustle and bustle of life, and your body is screaming for rest. Take a few days off, and you will find that you are back to normal. But there is another kind of tiredness that rest … Read more
A man who feels unloved will not come to you to announce that he feels unloved. He won’t say anything because that’s not how this works with most men. They don’t even always know that’s what they’re feeling sometimes. What they do is change quietly. And by the time you notice something is wrong, it … Read more