It is true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, even though people today argue that beauty is in the hands of the makeup artist and the facelifter.
This is funny, and I do not care if it is valid or not.
We’re not going to be talking about beauty today—we’re talking about being attractive.
There are several universally acceptable signs that can help you know if you’re an attractive woman.
Some women have those moments when they question their looks and energy and wonder if others find them appealing.
There are also some others whose confidence level is always 100 when it comes to assurance about their attractiveness.
But people who doubt themselves occasionally need a boost of self-confidence or some reassurance to help them get back on their feet.
Then, there are certain behaviors that people tend to find attractive and will always respond to.
Attraction is not always solely about appearance; you should check out those behaviors that people will always find attractive.
For the sake of this post, we will be talking about things that will help you know that people are attracted to you.
6 Signs You Are an Attractive Woman
1. People Smile at You Often
One of the simplest and most common signs that you are attractive is when people smile at you frequently.
It’s one thing when people just look at you; it’s another when they look at you with a smile.
A genuine smile is a universally acceptable sign of goodwill and approval, and it is often given without much thought.
If you notice that people smile at you often when you make eye contact, you should know that it is because you are giving off a warm, inviting energy that draws others in.
And if you are someone who smiles back at people, you possess the keys to the hearts of people.
It is one thing for people to consider you attractive and want to be around you, and it is another for them to know you are accessible and that they can relate to you freely.
2. You Get Compliments on Your Looks and Personality
Smiling is a nonverbal way of showing approval.
Compliments, however, are a direct form of communication where people express their admiration for you using carefully chosen words.
Smiling could be misrepresented or misunderstood, but a compliment is plain and simple and does the job effectively.
If you often receive compliments—whether they are about your style, hair, eyes, smile, or even your personality—it’s a clear sign that people find you attractive.
Compliments can also come from unexpected places, like a casual acquaintance or even a stranger.
When you consistently receive positive feedback about your appearance or the way you carry yourself, it’s a strong indicator that you have an attractive aura.
3. People Go Out of Their Way to Help You
Have you ever noticed that people are eager to help you, often without you asking?
When people are attracted to a person, they are easily moved to assist them.
Lending someone a helping hand may not always mean attraction, but it sure is a sign of it.
This is why a man will easily spend on a woman he likes while making excuses about his finances for a woman he doesn’t like.
People are naturally drawn to those they find attractive and are more inclined to offer help or go the extra mile for them.
I should mention that this behavior isn’t necessarily about physical appearance; it can also be due to an attractive personality that makes others want to be in your good graces.
It may also be an act of returning kindness.
Because one of the virtues that can make you really attractive is kindness.
And people going out of their way to help you may just be returning your kindness.
4. You Notice People Looking at You Often
I am always very uncomfortable with this—seeing random people stare at me.
I find that I subconsciously stare back because I hope they’ll say something or do something rather than just stare.
Well, it is a sign of attractiveness when you catch people glancing at or staring at you.
People tend to look at things that are pleasing to them, and if you notice eyes following you wherever you go, they may find you attractive.
And they do this without putting thoughts to it, so they may not even realize they are staring or stealing glances every other second.
I should also mention that humans tend to look at things that are different from the norm.
When you find people staring at you, check if your clothes are torn or stained before you flip your hair and intensify your catwalk because, for all we know, they might be wondering why you’re so confident in a torn or stained dress.
5. Strangers Start Conversations with You Easily
I have a friend who is so pretty.
She is so pretty that when people see her, they can’t help but want to start a conversation and befriend her.
To top it all up, she has a very endearing and charming smile.
For other people, it may not be their physical look but the positive energy they give off.
One thing is sure, though: attraction is like a charm that draws people to you.
So even random strangers want to talk with you to get a feel for that attraction.
Notice that I had to mention my pretty friend’s endearing smile.
Having a good physical appearance is not enough.
How do you respond when people speak with you?
Your attraction level can literally go from 100 to 0 if you give off a sadist energy, even when you’re very pretty.
More than your physical appearance, what will keep people glued to you will be your friendly, approachable demeanor, which will make them feel comfortable and eager to engage in conversation with you.
6. You Receive Flirtatious Behavior and Attention
I once sat with my male friend, and an attractive lady was sitting across from us.
Before I could blink, my friend was already cooking ways to flirt with her.
I had to let him know that she was married before he withdrew his steps.
For people who are unsure, flirting is a playful and often subconscious way people sometimes use to express attraction.
Not everyone who flirts with you finds you attractive, but some people who find you attractive will flirt with you to get your attention.
You’ll notice those signs of flirtation: compliments, playful teasing, or prolonged eye contact, and you can tell that this person is attracted to you.
People use flirtatious behavior to express their interest in a light-hearted and playful manner, testing the waters to see if there’s mutual attraction.
Of course, you already know that if you find the man flirting with you attractive and endearing, you will immediately flirt back to show approval.
But if you do not approve of the behavior, you will express your disapproval either in words or actions.
Being attractive is not just about looks; it’s about how you carry yourself, how you make others feel, and the energy you bring into a room.
It would be unfair to conclude this post without mentioning the things that people will always find attractive.
They are confidence, positivity, kindness, and a genuine smile.
These four go a long way in making you more attractive.
So, even on days when you’re not feeling your best, you should be able to keep your head high, smile at people around you, show kindness, and remember that you are attractive in your own unique way.